Last Saturday Real Parenting radio show on CFAX 1070 aired it’s 100th episode! To celebrate, I am giving away daily prizes all this week!
Recently I was honoured to have Kathleen Kendall-Tackett, author of The Hidden Feelings of Motherhood on the show. It was a wonderful episode with lots of honest discussion about the things that women rarely disclose about new parenthood, postpartum depression and the mixed emotions that often go along with the huge life transition of having a baby. Click on the Pocast tab above to listen to the episode.
On Tuesday, April 19 I am giving away a copy of Kathleen Kendall-Tacket’s book, The Hidden Feelings of Motherhood. To enter to win, comment below with your answer to this question: If you could go back in time armed with what you know now and give your new mom or new dad self some advice or encouragement, what might you say? Not yet a new mom or dad? What’s the best advice you’ve received so far?
Rules: Open only to residents of Canada (excluding Quebec) and must be age of majority. One entry per person. Be patient- comments are modified and will show up shortly. Names will be chosen randomly. Giveaway closes Tuesday April 19, 2011 at 9pm PST.
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I would tell myself to relax!
ALWAYS trust your gut, even when others are telling you differently.
Use all that time sitting around nursing to read good books – and learn to nurse lying down earlier.
I would tell myself that it’s not going to be easy. In fact, it’s going to suck. And when you think there must be something wrong, trust that feeling. Ask for help early, or you’ll still be dealing with PPD 3 years later.
Oh, if only
sleep when the baby sleeps!
I’d say that when people tell you it’s the hardest thing you’ll ever do. Believe it, and x 100. And don’t be afraid to ask for help. It’s not only needed. It’s imperative.
I would suggest to sleep whenever possible , even ask family to watch baby so you can rest up and feel refreshed once in awhile. Also always go with your gut instincts…better safe than sorry!
Don’t worry about ‘doing’ it all. You won’t, but that is totally ok.
I would tell myself that it is OK to ask for help! It’s too painful to try to do it all and still try to meet the needs of your child. The intensity of your children’s intense needs will pass.
If it had to do it all over again, I would not sweat the small stuff and focus my time and energy enjoying every moment of parenthood.
I would tell myself to take more credit for the hardwork I do raising my baby, its become so natural than when I am complimented on the good job I’ve done I let the compliment slide but I think all moms and dads should give themself a pat on the back!!!
Im a mother of one she is 14 months old i was introduced to a world i had no clue or even training in … i wouldn’t trade it for anything. Through the good bad and the ugly, you need to trust yourself that you can understand what your child is communicating. Believing in yourself is your greatest tool.
I would tell my self to breath more often and trust myself more. Listen to the advice that is shared but ignore it more and follow my mommy instinct
Having a newborn is hard on your relationship and sleep deprivation will bring out the worst in you. Try to have a sense of humor, get lots of fresh air, and get help whenever possible!
A mother knows her children best so always ALWAYS trust your gut
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